Configure Graceful Node Shutdown and lengthen max inhibitor delay

* Configure Kubelet Graceful Node Shutdown to detect system shutdown
events and stop running containers gracefully when possible
* Allow up to 30s for critical pods to gracefully shutdown
* Allow up to 15s for regular pods to gracefully shutdown
* Node will be marked as NotReady promptly, instead of having to
wait for health checks
* Kubelet uses systemd inhibitor locks to delay shutdown for a limited
number of seconds
* Raise the default max inhibitor time from 5s to 45s

Verify systemd inhibitor locks are present:

```
sudo systemd-inhibit --list
WHO     UID USER PID  COMM    WHAT     WHY                                        MODE
kubelet 0   root 4581 kubelet shutdown Kubelet needs time to handle node shutdown delay
```

Tail journal logs and then shutdown a node via systemctl reboot
or via the cloud console to watch container shutdown

Rel:

* https://kubernetes.io/blog/2021/04/21/graceful-node-shutdown-beta/
* https://kubernetes.io/docs/reference/config-api/kubelet-config.v1beta1/
* kubernetes/kubernetes#107043
* coreos/fedora-coreos-tracker#821
* https://www.freedesktop.org/software/systemd/man/systemd-inhibit.html
* https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/release-1.24/pkg/kubelet/nodeshutdown/nodeshutdown_manager_linux.go
* https://github.com/godbus/dbus/blob/master/conn.go

butane/controller.yaml

@@ -148,6 +148,8 @@ storage:
           featureGates:
             LocalStorageCapacityIsolationFSQuotaMonitoring: false
           rotateCertificates: true
+          shutdownGracePeriod: 45s
+          shutdownGracePeriodCriticalPods: 30s
           staticPodPath: /etc/kubernetes/manifests
           readOnlyPort: 0
           resolvConf: /run/systemd/resolve/resolv.conf
@@ -188,6 +190,11 @@ storage:
              echo "Retry applying manifests"
              sleep 5
           done
+    - path: /etc/systemd/logind.conf.d/inhibitors.conf
+      contents:
+        inline: |
+          [Login]
+          InhibitDelayMaxSec=45s
     - path: /etc/sysctl.d/max-user-watches.conf
       mode: 0644
       contents:

workers/butane/worker.yaml

@@ -116,10 +116,17 @@ storage:
           featureGates:
             LocalStorageCapacityIsolationFSQuotaMonitoring: false
           rotateCertificates: true
+          shutdownGracePeriod: 45s
+          shutdownGracePeriodCriticalPods: 30s
           staticPodPath: /etc/kubernetes/manifests
           readOnlyPort: 0
           resolvConf: /run/systemd/resolve/resolv.conf
           volumePluginDir: /var/lib/kubelet/volumeplugins
+    - path: /etc/systemd/logind.conf.d/inhibitors.conf
+      contents:
+        inline: |
+          [Login]
+          InhibitDelayMaxSec=45s
     - path: /etc/sysctl.d/max-user-watches.conf
       mode: 0644
       contents: