[ENH] Support dplyr 1.0.9

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Feature Type

• Adding new functionality to datar

• Changing existing functionality in datar

• Removing existing functionality in datar

Problem Description

https://github.com/tidyverse/dplyr/releases/tag/v1.0.9

Feature Description

• rows_update() to allow key to be not unique
• rows_update() to allow key to be a pipda Expression
• rows_update(), rows_patch(), and rows_delete() gained a new unmatched
  argument allowing you greater control over rows in y with keys that are
  unmatched by the keys in x. By default, an unmatched key results in an
  error, but you can now also "ignore" these y rows.
• rows_delete() no longer requires that the columns of y be a strict subset
  of x. Only the columns specified through by will be utilized from y,
  all others will be dropped with a message.

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