necessary change to make torch2.3 work with triton2.2

[shunting314]

This PR contains necessary changes on PyTorch side to make torch2.3 work with triton2.2. Mainly 2 changes

1. make remote autotune cache work
2. make user defined triton kernel work to parse triton ir.

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NEW FAILURES - The following jobs have failed:

• pull / linux-focal-cuda12.1-py3.10-gcc9-sm86 / test (default, 1, 5, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu) (gh)
  inductor/test_torchinductor_dynamic_shapes.py::DynamicShapesCpuTests::test_like_rands3_dynamic_shapes_cpu
• pull / linux-focal-cuda12.1-py3.10-gcc9-sm86 / test (default, 3, 5, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu) (gh)
  functorch/test_eager_transforms.py::TestCompileTransformsCUDA::test_compile_vmap_hessian_cuda

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• pull / linux-focal-cuda12.1-py3.10-gcc9-sm86 / test (default, 2, 5, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu) (gh)
  inductor/test_torchinductor.py::SweepInputsGPUTest::test_cuda_broadcast1_broadcast1
• pull / linux-focal-cuda12.1-py3.10-gcc9-sm86 / test (default, 4, 5, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu) (gh)
  test_nestedtensor.py::TestNestedTensorSubclassCUDA::test_sdpa_compile_cuda_bfloat16
• pull / linux-focal-cuda12.1-py3.10-gcc9-sm86 / test (default, 5, 5, linux.g5.4xlarge.nvidia.gpu) (gh)
  inductor/test_torchinductor_opinfo.py::TestInductorOpInfoCUDA::test_comprehensive___getitem___cuda_float32

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[shunting314]

If we see some errors on this PR regarding triton API change. That should be expected since this PR is still running against a different version of triton rather than triton 2.2.x. Full tests is done in #121781