[3.8] Prevent smallrye-graphql-schema-builder from leaking into runtime deps

[jmartisk]

@rsvoboda

[jmartisk]

Very strictly speaking it's a breaking change, but only if somebody uses the configuration object (SmallRyeGraphQLConfig) programmatically, which I think is not supported for applications?! But the benefit here is big, we get rid of the kotlin-stdlib and kotlinx-metadata-jvm dependencies in runtime.

[rsvoboda]

Context for backports session: fixes kotlin part of https://issues.redhat.com/browse/QUARKUS-4078

[aloubyansky]

FYI @gsmet, we'll want it in 3.8.4.

[quarkus-bot]

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Failures

⚙️ JVM Tests - JDK 17 #

- Failing: integration-tests/grpc-descriptor-sets/grpc-descriptor-set-alternate-output-dir 

📦 integration-tests/grpc-descriptor-sets/grpc-descriptor-set-alternate-output-dir

✖ io.quarkus.grpc.examples.hello.DescriptorSetExistsTest.descriptorSetExists line 16 - History - More details - Source on GitHub

java.lang.AssertionError: 

Expecting path:
  /home/runner/work/quarkus/quarkus/integration-tests/grpc-descriptor-sets/grpc-descriptor-set-alternate-output-dir/target/proto
to exist (symbolic links were followed).
	at io.quarkus.grpc.examples.hello.DescriptorSetExistsTest.descriptorSetExists(DescriptorSetExistsTest.java:16)
	at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:568)
	at java.base/java.util.ArrayList.forEach(ArrayList.java:1511)

[gsmet]

I'm not sure what's going on with this gRPC test failing. It has been failing a few times...