Obey validate: false option for habtm

Fixes #14383.

activerecord/lib/active_record/associations.rb

@@ -1584,7 +1584,7 @@ def destroy_associations
         hm_options[:through] = middle_reflection.name
         hm_options[:source] = join_model.right_reflection.name
 
-        [:before_add, :after_add, :before_remove, :after_remove, :autosave].each do |k|
+        [:before_add, :after_add, :before_remove, :after_remove, :autosave, :validate].each do |k|
           hm_options[k] = options[k] if options.key? k
         end
 

activerecord/test/cases/associations/has_and_belongs_to_many_associations_test.rb

@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@
 require 'models/tag'
 require 'models/tagging'
 require 'models/parrot'
+require 'models/person'
 require 'models/pirate'
 require 'models/treasure'
 require 'models/price_estimate'
@@ -795,4 +796,27 @@ def test_destruction_does_not_error_without_primary_key
     end
   end
 
+  def test_association_with_validate_false_does_not_run_associated_validation_callbacks_on_create
+    rich_person = RichPerson.new
+
+    treasure = Treasure.new
+    treasure.rich_people << rich_person
+    treasure.valid?
+
+    assert_equal 1, treasure.rich_people.size
+    assert_nil rich_person.first_name, 'should not run associated person validation on create when validate: false'
+  end
+
+  def test_association_with_validate_false_does_not_run_associated_validation_callbacks_on_update
+    rich_person = RichPerson.create!
+    person_first_name = rich_person.first_name
+    assert_not_nil person_first_name
+
+    treasure = Treasure.new
+    treasure.rich_people << rich_person
+    treasure.valid?
+
+    assert_equal 1, treasure.rich_people.size
+    assert_equal person_first_name, rich_person.first_name, 'should not run associated person validation on update when validate: false'
+  end
 end

activerecord/test/models/person.rb

@@ -89,6 +89,19 @@ class RichPerson < ActiveRecord::Base
   self.table_name = 'people'
 
   has_and_belongs_to_many :treasures, :join_table => 'peoples_treasures'
+
+  before_validation :run_before_create, on: :create
+  before_validation :run_before_validation
+
+  private
+
+  def run_before_create
+    self.first_name = first_name.to_s + 'run_before_create'
+  end
+
+  def run_before_validation
+    self.first_name = first_name.to_s + 'run_before_validation'
+  end
 end
 
 class NestedPerson < ActiveRecord::Base

activerecord/test/models/treasure.rb

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@ class Treasure < ActiveRecord::Base
   belongs_to :looter, :polymorphic => true
 
   has_many :price_estimates, :as => :estimate_of
+  has_and_belongs_to_many :rich_people, join_table: 'peoples_treasures', validate: false
 
   accepts_nested_attributes_for :looter
 end