[backport v2.7.patch1] Update user Deleted/Disabled labels

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This is an automated request to port PR #10977 by @rak-phillip

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Summary

This updates the labels for the new User fields so that their behavior is made more clear. Rationale regarding this change can be found in #10978.

Fixes #10978

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