fix: fix parallel sqllogictest on stream e2e

[yezizp2012]

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As title, fixed some bugs when update actors. Finally we can support running streaming e2e test. Big thanks for @MrCroxx 's co-debug!!!

./risedev` dev ci-3cn-1fe
sqllogictest -p 4566 -d dev  './e2e_test/streaming/**/*.slt' -j 8

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Resolve #3051

[MrCroxx]

LGTM!!!!!!!!! Both exhausted, QwQ.

[skyzh]

Would you please help also include the CI script change in #3084, so that parallel e2e test will be running in full cluster mode?

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Codecov Report

Merging #3601 (fff9e04) into main (5a32e25) will increase coverage by 0.02%.
The diff coverage is 42.85%.

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src/meta/src/stream/stream_graph.rs	79.16% <ø> (+0.30%)	⬆️
src/stream/src/executor/dispatch.rs	77.11% <ø> (-0.04%)	⬇️
src/stream/src/task/stream_manager.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/stream/src/task/mod.rs	43.90% <66.66%> (+0.15%)	⬆️
src/meta/src/stream/stream_manager.rs	76.88% <100.00%> (ø)
src/connector/src/filesystem/file_common.rs	80.35% <0.00%> (-0.45%)	⬇️
src/meta/src/manager/id.rs	96.06% <0.00%> (ø)
src/frontend/src/expr/utils.rs	98.74% <0.00%> (ø)
src/common/src/types/ordered_float.rs	24.90% <0.00%> (+0.19%)	⬆️
src/meta/src/hummock/mock_hummock_meta_client.rs	42.45% <0.00%> (+0.94%)	⬆️

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