Switch to sphinx book theme

[adamgayoso]

This aligns us with the scverse cookiecutter. The theme also now has dark mode.

One thing we need to change is to make the tutorial notebooks use myst-nb style admonitions.

The way the theme handles colab urls isn't compatible with how we use git submodules, so I created a simple sphinx extension to handle this and edit the colab url post hoc

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[adamgayoso]

@martinkim0 we can get this in but not backport it to 0.20.x, so it would come out at the next major release

[martinkim0]

LGTM