make ping cache rate limit delay configurable (backport #27955)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #27955 done by Mergify.
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   gossip/src/cluster_info.rs
	modified:   gossip/src/crds_gossip_pull.rs
	modified:   gossip/src/ping_pong.rs
	modified:   gossip/tests/crds_gossip.rs

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	both modified:   core/src/serve_repair.rs

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