GH-2742: Exit batch retries when container is paused

[antonio-tomac]

Closes #2742

Implementation is aligned with idea exit retrying as soon as possible if any of is true:

• container is not running anymore
• container is requested to pause
• retrying batch which has record from partition that container is requested to pause

Why I extracted ?

static Runnable NO_OP = () -> {};

• To be able to verify arguments
• Named field stating intention

Why did I introduced new method?

public static void stoppableSleep(Supplier<Boolean> shouldSleepCondition, long interval) throws InterruptedException

• At first it was tempting just to add !container.isRunning() || container.isPauseRequested() but not having access to retrying ConsumerRecords to check paused partitions
• Changing behaviour of public api seems like bad idea, and I believe banned for patch (or even minor) versions

Regarding execution duration assertions

• Initially, I wrote something like

  assertThat(duration).isBetween(100L, 150L);

• But, such assertions could become flaky tests when asking sleep for "precise" timing