"Possible connections" glitches

[christianbundy]

Two things:

• My local pub, libra.fraction.io, keeps popping up at the top of the "possible connections" list every second and then immediately disappears. This makes it impossible to click and very visually distracting because it's making the others in the list move up and down in a stuttery fashion once per second. I think "pub.evbogue.com" and "Ql06HdDq1" have the same problem, but they take a few moments to show up again.
• When I hover "ansuz" and click it registers the click and the pub leaves my screen for a moment, but then it comes back. I'm not seeing any error output anywhere, but I'm guessing a connection is failing somewhere?

cc: @staltz

[staltz]

This seems to be mostly caused by timing issues in ssb-conn. My fault and I'll think about a solution