Addon-docs: Auto-disable docs presets if docs/controls unused

[shilman]

Issue: #16210

What I did

• Added verbose setting to node-logger
• Add utility to test whether addon-docs/controls is used by the user
• Auto-disable docs presets for each of the frameworks that provide it
• Documented the changes in MIGRATION.md

What to review

1. The MIGRATION notes
2. Overall structure: does this form of disabling make sense? Note that there is no way to force these presets to execute if you're not using docs or controls addon
3. Every preset function has the following "exit early" pattern. I would've preferred to conditionally remove the entire docs preset rather than each preset function, but unfortunately, the preset/addon hierarchy must be statically defined (for good reason):

export const config: StorybookConfig['config'] = (entry = [], options) => {
  if (!hasDocsOrControls(options)) return entry;
  return [...entry, findDistEsm(__dirname, 'client/docs/config')];
};

How to test

With and without addon-essentials in .storybook/main.ts:

cd examples/react-ts
yarn storybook --loglevel=verbose

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[tmeasday]

LGTM, one minor nit suggestion