[feature] Inherit resource limits from cgroups

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Description

When GTS is running in a container runtime which has configured CPU or memory limits or under an init system that uses cgroups to impose CPU and memory limits the values the Go runtime sees for GOMAXPROCS and GOMEMLIMIT are still based on the host resources, not the cgroup (if the cgroup has such limits set).

At least for the throttling middlewares which use GOMAXPROCS to configure their queue size, this can result in GTS running with values too big compared to the resources that will actuall be available to it.

This introduces 2 dependencies which can pick up resource contraints from the current cgroup and tune the Go runtime accordingly. This should result in the different queues being appropriately sized and in general more predictable performance. These dependencies are a no-op on non-Linux systems or if running in a cgroup that doesn't set a limit on CPU or memory.

The automatic tuning of GOMEMLIMIT can be disabled by either explicitly setting GOMEMLIMIT yourself or by setting AUTOMEMLIMIT=off. The automatic tuning of GOMAXPROCS can similarly be counteracted by setting GOMAXPROCS yourself.

Checklist

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• I/we have read the GoToSocial contribution guidelines.
• I/we have discussed the proposed changes already, either in an issue on the repository, or in the Matrix chat.
• I/we have performed a self-review of added code.
• I/we have written code that is legible and maintainable by others.
• I/we have commented the added code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas.
• I/we have made any necessary changes to documentation.
• I/we have added tests that cover new code.
• I/we have run tests and they pass locally with the changes.
• I/we have run go fmt ./... and golangci-lint run.

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I added this in cmd/gotosocial/action/server since it's only the long running server process that needs this. But it could be moved into main if that's preferable.