chore: improvements to local development for easier use of lagoon

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Just restructuring the make file to make local experience better. The main changes are in the charts repo which is where a lot of the main make logic lives.

Key things:

• installs metallb and cert-manager into k3d
  • metallb allows for creating loadbalancers in k3d that get their own dedicated IP address within the docker network of k3d. this means users don't have to add :32080 or :32443 to ingress etc
  • cert-manager will provision self-signed certificates when the kubernetes.io/tls-acme annotation is present
• make k3d/setup will now spin up a k3d and install lagoon to an operational point. this lets someone spin up lagoon to a point where they can basically "just use it".
• new make k3d/local-stack will create a k3d cluster, install lagoon, load some seed data and seed users and present credentials to log in and start using it straight away in a fully functional local stack
• new make k3d/get-lagoon-details will return more useful information that allows someone that has run make k3d/setup to access this lagoon quicker (it would be nice if we could seed some user accounts like this)
• mac users: https://github.com/chipmk/docker-mac-net-connect mac users can use this to allow access to the services created using metallb
• all the docker-compose deployed versions will also get the seed users added now too