Fix TSan report in StorageSet and StorageJoin

[alexey-milovidov]

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• Bug Fix

Changelog entry (a user-readable short description of the changes that goes to CHANGELOG.md):
Fix possible race condition in concurrent usage of Set or Join tables and selects from system.tables.

Detailed description / Documentation draft:
See https://clickhouse-test-reports.s3.yandex.net/9516/6e52fb1f5d1f751023346c80e12a357abae23be7/stress_test_(thread)/stderr.log
Found in #9516. The issue first appeared in #16306 (version 20.11).

[alexey-milovidov]

This does not hold after #16306, hence the bug.

[alexey-milovidov]

Performance:

2020.12.30 18:35:19.034788 [ 93 ] {} TLDListsHolder: public_suffix_list loading from /top_level_domains/public_suffix_list.dat
2020.12.30 18:35:19.035085 [ 93 ] {} Application: DB::ErrnoException: Cannot open file /top_level_domains/public_suffix_list.dat, errno: 2, strerror: No such file or directory
2020.12.30 18:35:19.035089 [ 93 ] {} Application: shutting down

[azat]

2020.12.30 18:35:19.035085 [ 93 ] {} Application: DB::ErrnoException: Cannot open file /top_level_domains/public_suffix_list.dat, errno: 2, strerror: No such file or directory

I see that performance package should contain it (and no errors from cp), however I don't see it in the performance.tgz archive.

[azat]

I see that performance package should contain it (and no errors from cp), however I don't see it in the performance.tgz archive.

#18686