[Enhancement] check compare optmization more strict (backport #42936)

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Why I'm doing:

string > 1231, will optimize to string > "1231", but >,<,<=,>= must cast to double

For:
string > 123, must cast to double, can't optimize
string = 123, and cbo_eq_type = decimal, can't optimize
string = 123, and cbo_eq_type = varchar, can be string = "123" , but if follow the normal logical, the result also string = "123" , it's unnecessary

What I'm doing:

Fixes #40619

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #42936 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com). ## Why I'm doing:

string > 1231, will optimize to string > "1231", but >,<,<=,>= must cast to double

For:
string > 123, must cast to double, can't optimize
string = 123, and cbo_eq_type = decimal, can't optimize
string = 123, and cbo_eq_type = varchar, can be string = "123" , but if follow the normal logical, the result also string = "123" , it's unnecessary

What I'm doing:

Fixes #40619

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

[mergify]

Cherry-pick of a04b659 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/branch-3.1/pr-42936
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  (fix conflicts and run "git cherry-pick --continue")
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/common/TypeManager.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rewrite/scalar/ImplicitCastRule.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/java/com/starrocks/sql/plan/ExpressionTest.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/java/com/starrocks/sql/plan/ReplayFromDumpTest.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/resources/sql/subquery/in-subquery.sql

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add/rm <file>..." as appropriate to mark resolution)
	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/resources/sql/subquery/scalar-subquery.sql
	deleted by us:   test/sql/test_multi_ops/R/test_depends_ops

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[mergify]

@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr