ARROW-17990: [C++] Restore -mbmi2 flag

[kou]

#14342 removed -mbmi2 flag accidentally. It should not be removed. If we remove it, a build error is occurred on macOS High Sierra.

https://github.com/ursacomputing/crossbow/actions/runs/3225397138/jobs/5278904264#step:13:7034

/Users/voltrondata/tmp/hbtmp/apache-arrow-20221011-35535-3alkwv/cpp/src/parquet/level_conversion_inc.h:278:10:
error: always_inline function '_pext_u64' requires target feature
'bmi2', but would be inlined into function 'ExtractBits' that is
compiled without support for 'bmi2'
  return _pext_u64(bitmap, select_bitmap);
         ^

[kou]

@github-actions crossbow submit r-binary-packages

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-15678

[github-actions]

Revision: fd6e0a4

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-b7bb90f6eb

Task	Status
r-binary-packages

[assignUser]

There is a Jira for this: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17990

[kou]

Thanks! I've updated title!

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17990

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[kou]

Passed. I merge this.

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = aec3584 and contender = cdd0fdf. cdd0fdf is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed ⬇️0.56% ⬆️0.0%] test-mac-arm
[Failed ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.57% ⬆️0.14%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] cdd0fdf3 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] cdd0fdf3 test-mac-arm
[Failed] cdd0fdf3 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] cdd0fdf3 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] aec35844 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] aec35844 test-mac-arm
[Failed] aec35844 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] aec35844 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java

[ursabot]

['Python', 'R'] benchmarks have high level of regressions.
ursa-i9-9960x