Backport moving/ part checking code from master

[Felixoid]

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• Bug Fix (user-visible misbehavior in an official stable release)

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In 23.3 there is an incorrect check for parts in moving directory which leads to errors:

~DataPart() should remove part store/04b/04b1ef98-6f93-4638-8157-431b66bd0f51/moving/20230716_4842_4842_0/ but its name doesn't start with "tmp" or end with ".tmp_proj". Too suspicious, keeping the part.

This patch backports the correct behaviour

Duplicate of #54120 from @myrrc to trigger a proper workflow

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