Build wheels for macOS arm64 (Apple Silicon)

[sarlinpe]

Cross-compilation on x86_64 runners: https://cibuildwheel.readthedocs.io/en/stable/faq/#apple-silicon

[sarlinpe]

The arm64 wheels are broken because brew binaries are compiled for x86_64, so delocate fails - see the doc:

brew will not install the right arch for cross compilation of Apple Silicon wheels.

Homebrew also limits the compatibility of x86_64 wheels - see the logs:

2023-12-15T16:12:08.8876930Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libflann.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:08.8905560Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/liblz4.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:08.9017020Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libmetis.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:08.9021240Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libfreeimage.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:08.9195260Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libceres.2.2.0.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:09.0070470Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libglog.0.6.0.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)
2023-12-15T16:12:09.0153530Z ld: warning: dylib (/usr/local/lib/libgflags.2.2.2.dylib) was built for newer macOS version (13.0) than being linked (10.9)

We could maybe install all dependencies with vcpkg instead.

[sarlinpe]

• Install dependencies with VCPKG instead of Homebrew
  • Reduces the wheel size from 27 MB to 9 MB
  • Supports macOS >= 10.9 (previously only 12.x)
• Builds wheels for arm64 - successfully tested