feat!: Update crossplane-runtime to 1.14.1

[MisterMX]

Description of your changes

• Update controller-runtime and other libs as well.
• Remove deprecated property spec.providerRef from all CRDs

Fixes: #1934

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[chlunde]

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I wonder if we could have a basic e2e/integration test that installs the previous version in a kind cluster, add some resources connected to local stack, upgrade and do some basic changes

[MisterMX]

I wonder if we could have a basic e2e/integration test that installs the previous version in a kind cluster, add some resources connected to local stack, upgrade and do some basic changes

I know what you mean. We are thinking about a solution for this issue for quite a while already. Thing is that local stack only provides a subset of AWS resources and some of them only in the premium tier.

We have this integration test kinda thing in cluster/local/integration_tests.sh but it only tries to install the provider in a kind cluster and does not test the individual controllers.

There is a proposal in crossplane-contrib/provider-argocd#89 that uses
https://github.com/maximilianbraun/xp-testing and https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/e2e-framework/ to run E2E tests. However, it is much simpler there because you only need an ArgoCD instance instead of a whole AWS environment.

[chlunde]

@MisterMX I was just thinking about testing a couple of services to get coverage for crossplane-runtime etc. Probably at least one service "hand written" and one generated, not full e2e coverage.