Add a logging event when the context pooling maximum size is exceeded

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As part of the Fortunes optimizations, it was discovered that our context pooling maximum size wasn't high enough (aspnet/Benchmarks#1630). As suggested by @sebastienros, we should have a logging event for this - it's very easy to miss this (as we did) and think you're efficiently using context pooling, when in fact you're not.

IMHO it makes sense to fire this event only once, as a warning by default. Especially zealous applications (like our benchmarks) could configure this to throw an exception instead.