feat/make binary and varbinary accept buffer

[ologbonowiwi]

• test: create test allowing buffer use for binary column
• test: write test enforcing retro compatibility
• feat: return buffer always for binary type
• test: update zod tests to work with binary buffer
• test: update drizzle-valibot tests to work with binary buffer
• test: update drizzle-typebox tests to work with binary buffer
• chore: fix mispelling
• test: create test ensuring varbinary retro compatbility + buffer type
• feat: make possible to receive buffer on varbinary
• test: set missing length on varbinary creation
• test: set varbinary as buffer on typebox, valibot and zod

this is the continuation of the job started on #425.
/claim #1188

[ologbonowiwi]

@AndriiSherman, can you review this? the bounty can be collected only once the PR is merged 😄

[AndriiSherman]

So far looks good to be merged. Can you please sign all the commits so I can merge this PR?

[tslater]

@ologbonowiwi @AndriiSherman Any updates on this? Anything we can do to help move it along?

[ologbonowiwi]

@tslater is pretty much done on my side. I'm waiting for @AndriiSherman.

For precaution, I solved the conflicts. It should be ready to be merged.