fix: make init_resource_with_retrier/4 only 'throw' when failed

[terry-xiaoyu]

The return value and failure pattern of init_resource_with_retrier/4 should be the same as init_resource/4.
The issue was introduced by this one: #9199

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[xiangfangyang-tech]

tested good