scenes: update to v4.14.0: opt-in to useQueriesAsFilterForOptions

[darrenjaneczek]

With updating the scenes library, dashboards must now explicitly opt in to useQueriesAsFilterForOptions.
We want to ensure we opt into this all the time for the new scenes dashboards.
We do not want this behavior for certain scenes apps, like "Explore Metrics"

Updating the library to require opt-in for useQueriesAsFilterForOptions fixes a bug in "Explore Metrics" which prevents the adhoc filter varible from being able to select keys and values once the sample panels in the select metrics scene have been initialized.

Depends on:

• AdHocFiltersVariable: create an opt-in state variable for using queries to filter the options scenes#713

Special notes for your reviewer:

Please check that:

• It works as expected from a user's perspective.
• If this is a pre-GA feature, it is behind a feature toggle.
• The docs are updated, and if this is a notable improvement, it's added to our What's New doc.

[grafana-delivery-bot]

This PR must be merged before a backport PR will be created.

[grafana-delivery-bot]

This PR must be merged before a backport PR will be created.

[grafana-delivery-bot]

The backport to v11.0.x failed:

The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 1

To backport manually, run these commands in your terminal:

# Fetch latest updates from GitHub
git fetch
# Create a new branch
git switch --create backport-87244-to-v11.0.x origin/v11.0.x
# Cherry-pick the merged commit of this pull request and resolve the conflicts
git cherry-pick -x 5b424ed6bb0bf8f3494d2c74e5d18ce9880512d8

When the conflicts are resolved, stage and commit the changes:

git add . && git cherry-pick --continue

If you have the GitHub CLI installed:

# Push the branch to GitHub:
git push --set-upstream origin backport-87244-to-v11.0.x
# Create the PR body template
PR_BODY=$(gh pr view 87244 --json body --template 'Backport 5b424ed6bb0bf8f3494d2c74e5d18ce9880512d8 from #87244{{ "\n\n---\n\n" }}{{ index . "body" }}')
# Create the PR on GitHub
echo "${PR_BODY}" | gh pr create --title "[v11.0.x] scenes: update to v4.14.0: opt-in to `useQueriesAsFilterForOptions`" --body-file - --label "type/bug" --label "area/frontend" --label "no-changelog" --label "backport" --base v11.0.x --milestone 11.0.x --web

Or, if you don't have the GitHub CLI installed (we recommend you install it!):

# Push the branch to GitHub:
git push --set-upstream origin backport-87244-to-v11.0.x

# Create a pull request where the `base` branch is `v11.0.x` and the `compare`/`head` branch is `backport-87244-to-v11.0.x`.

# Remove the local backport branch
git switch main
git branch -D backport-87244-to-v11.0.x