[CSI 2.6.x] Cross-port telemetry enhancements and the nodes cache fix during attach/detach

[chethanv28]

What this PR does / why we need it:
Cross-port telemetry enhancements, CSI Migration bug fix related to AttachVolumes and also the nodes cache fix during attach/detach.

The below pull requests are cherry-picked as part of this PR:
#2546
#2404

Which issue this PR fixes (optional, in fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...) format, will close that issue when PR gets merged): fixes #

Testing done:

kubectl get pods -n vmware-system-csi -o wide 
NAME                                      READY   STATUS    RESTARTS   AGE   IP              NODE                         NOMINATED NODE   READINESS GATES
vsphere-csi-controller-7768f66499-dw5q9   7/7     Running   0          38m   10.244.2.5      k8s-control-282-1698699174   <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-79r7w                    3/3     Running   0          34m   10.193.44.166   k8s-node-188-1698699204      <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-8p9nk                    3/3     Running   0          36m   10.193.35.249   k8s-control-385-1698699161   <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-bhxpd                    3/3     Running   0          35m   10.193.33.248   k8s-node-223-1698699216      <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-c9v8c                    3/3     Running   0          35m   10.193.54.14    k8s-control-282-1698699174   <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-hmqpr                    3/3     Running   0          37m   10.193.62.253   k8s-control-269-1698699149   <none>           <none>
vsphere-csi-node-xlsh4                    3/3     Running   0          36m   10.193.55.254   k8s-node-439-1698699188      <none>           <none>

kubectl get sc,pvc -A
NAME                                                            PROVISIONER              RECLAIMPOLICY   VOLUMEBINDINGMODE   ALLOWVOLUMEEXPANSION   AGE
storageclass.storage.k8s.io/example-vanilla-rwo-filesystem-sc   csi.vsphere.vmware.com   Delete          Immediate           true                   5m

NAMESPACE   NAME                                            STATUS   VOLUME                                     CAPACITY   ACCESS MODES   STORAGECLASS                        AGE
default     persistentvolumeclaim/example-vanilla-rwo-pvc   Bound    pvc-d4cf7654-8w4d-4487-8c3e-66ef47eb4113   1Gi        RWO            example-vanilla-rwo-filesystem-sc   2m

Special notes for your reviewer:

Release note:

Cross-port telemetry enhancements and nodes cache fix during attach/detach.

[chethanv28]

/test pull-vsphere-csi-driver-verify-staticcheck

[divyenpatel]

/approve

[svcbot-qecnsdp]

Started Vanilla block pre-checkin pipeline... Build Number: 2520

[divyenpatel]

/approve
/lgtm

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