enhance: [2.3] add the skip auto id and partition key check config

[SimFG]

/kind improvement
issue: #32591
pr: #32592

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 83.09%. Comparing base (114e305) to head (e6f2835).

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+ Coverage   83.04%   83.09%   +0.04%     
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  Files         850      850              
  Lines      106508   106523      +15     
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+ Hits        88450    88510      +60     
+ Misses      14759    14710      -49     
- Partials     3299     3303       +4     

Files	Coverage Δ
internal/proxy/util.go	91.53% <100.00%> (-0.19%)	⬇️
pkg/util/paramtable/component_param.go	98.26% <100.00%> (+0.01%)	⬆️

... and 20 files with indirect coverage changes

[jaime0815]

/lgtm

[czs007]

/approve

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