Helm chart impovements

[dyvol777]

Description

Split toleration, nodeSelector and affinity from main pods and jobs. This is usefull, for example, when you want to run jobs on different nodes or use podAntiAffinity.
Fixed public monitoring from #13238: added env to deployment and gateway-deployment. Changed var in statefullSet

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Optimization (provides speedup with no functional changes)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist:

• Fixes a regression (If yes, please add commit-id or PR # here)
• Documentation updated
• Unit tests added/updated

[minio-trusted]

Mint Automation

Test	Result
mint-large-bucket.sh	✔️
mint-fs.sh	✔️
mint-gateway-s3.sh	✔️
mint-erasure.sh	✔️
mint-dist-erasure.sh	✔️
mint-zoned.sh	✔️
mint-gateway-nas.sh	✔️
mint-compress-encrypt-dist-erasure.sh	✔️
Deleting image on docker hub
Deleting image locally