chore: move openssl update to 3.0.x branch

[mayeut]

move openssl update to 3.0.x branch & run nox -s update_native_dependencies update_python_dependencies

Closes #1498
Closes #1536

[pelson]

A knock on from this is that in older Pythons (e.g. 3.7), we get an older SSL version:

# Image from 2023-09-17
$ docker run -it quay.io/pypa/manylinux2014_x86_64@sha256:1daa7e6160cc707c2db44708b756fe18c163cd8ab70f76d4a23432b3c6a5b45d python3.7 -c "import ssl; print(ssl.OPENSSL_VERSION)"
OpenSSL 1.1.1w  11 Sep 2023

# Image from 2023-09-23
$ docker run -it quay.io/pypa/manylinux2014_x86_64@sha256:4db749f5b44a2d83b2d3b4934cb744361114ae72ecae21e807fbe10175270d79 python3.7 -c "import ssl; print(ssl.OPENSSL_VERSION)"
OpenSSL 1.0.2k-fips  26 Jan 2017

1daa7e6160cc is from 2023-09-17

and

4db749f5b44a is from 2023-09-23

The implication is that urllib3 v2 for Python 3.7 can no longer be used on manylinux2014:

python3.7 -c "import urllib3"
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<string>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/opt/_internal/cpython-3.7.17/lib/python3.7/site-packages/urllib3/__init__.py", line 39, in <module>
    "urllib3 v2.0 only supports OpenSSL 1.1.1+, currently "
ImportError: urllib3 v2.0 only supports OpenSSL 1.1.1+, currently the 'ssl' module is compiled with OpenSSL 1.0.2k-fips  26 Jan 2017. See: https://github.com/urllib3/urllib3/issues/2168

I am simply reporting this as a knock-on effect.