add --rm and --name to devcontainer run args

[trxcllnt]

• Remove the devcontainer when the VSCode window closes
• Adds a descriptive name to the running container:

  $ docker ps -a
  CONTAINER ID   IMAGE        ...  NAMES
  0dbb364fe544   vsc-rmm-...  ...  rapids-rmm-24.06-cuda12.2-conda
  
  $ docker rm -f rapids-rmm-24.06-cuda12.2-conda

[harrism]

Can you add the local user name to the container name in the RAPIDS combined devcontainers too, if you haven't already?

[trxcllnt]

@harrism done in rapidsai/devcontainers#276

[harrism]

/merge