Remove the use of non-inclusive terms

[lodi-g]

There is two non-inclusive words on master branch: 'whitelist' and 'blacklist'.
I think they are not inclusive and should be replaced by 'allow-list' and 'disallow-list' or some equivalent.

https://github.com/facebookexperimental/rome/blob/master/packages/%40romejs/js-compiler/transforms/compile/validation/optimizeImports.ts#L29
https://github.com/facebookexperimental/rome/blob/master/packages/%40romejs/js-parser/xhtmlEntities.ts#L273

Thanks

[sebmck]

Thanks for flagging! Happy to accept a PR, otherwise I'll get around to it when I can. I've avoided blacklist/whitelist in the configuration in favor of ignore, only etc but this must have slipped through.

We also use the terms master and worker. Unclear if that's a concern since it's not master/slave which is the common problematic case.