onetbb: Upgrade to 2021.9.0 + GCC13 patch

[mkoeppe]

📚 Description

To fix build on fedora-39-minimal, archlinux-latest-{minimal,standard}, opensuse-tumbleweed-minimal - as seen in https://github.com/scipopt/SCIP-SDP/actions/runs/5203680653 (scipopt/SCIP-SDP#6)

Tests at https://github.com/mkoeppe/SCIP-SDP/actions/runs/5298512526

Part of:

• Support GCC 13 (fedora-38) #35092

📝 Checklist

• The title is concise, informative, and self-explanatory.
• The description explains in detail what this PR is about.
• I have linked a relevant issue or discussion.
• I have created tests covering the changes.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.

⌛ Dependencies

• Depends on build/pkgs/onetbb: Add distros/opensuse.txt #35785 (merged here)

[mkoeppe]

Failure for archlinux-latest-standard (https://github.com/mkoeppe/SCIP-SDP/actions/runs/5298512526/jobs/9590920290#step:13:203):

In file included from /sage/local/var/tmp/sage/build/onetbb-2021.9.0/src/test/tbbmalloc/test_malloc_lib_unload.cpp:21:
/sage/local/var/tmp/sage/build/onetbb-2021.9.0/src/test/common/utils_assert.h: In function 'void utils::ReportError(const char*, int, const char*, const char*)':
/sage/local/var/tmp/sage/build/onetbb-2021.9.0/src/test/common/utils_assert.h:37:5: error: 'abort' was not declared in this scope
   37 |     abort();
      |     ^~~~~
/sage/local/var/tmp/sage/build/onetbb-2021.9.0/src/test/common/utils_assert.h:22:1: note: 'abort' is defined in header '<cstdlib>'; did you forget to '#include <cstdlib>'?
   21 | #include "utils_report.h"
  +++ |+#include <cstdlib>
   22 | 

[github-actions]

Documentation preview for this PR (built with commit d39809b) is ready! 🎉

[mkoeppe]

This fixes the onetbb build on all Linux platforms (except for ubuntu-trusty, which is hopeless)

[dimpase]

LGTM

[mkoeppe]

Thanks!