chore: update datafusion

[MichaelScofield]

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pre-work to #3520

What's changed and what's your intention?

Old version of datafusion cannot rewrite TableScan plan with different table source: it uses plan equality to determine whether the rewrite is happened, while the table source field of TableScan plan is not considered in eq.

This PR also updates the "friends" of datafusion, including Arrow (to version 51), Parquet, sqlparser and tonic.

Checklist

• I have written the necessary rustdoc comments.
• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.
• This PR does not require documentation updates.

[sunng87]

Can we wait for arrow 51 release to include an update of tonic 0.11 which includes an update of rustls 0.22? I think it won't be long.

[evenyag]

Can we wait for arrow 51 release to include an update of tonic 0.11 which includes an update of rustls 0.22? I think it won't be long.

https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/bd9b33ceca3553431b6b328de93f1836bbd9e263/Cargo.toml#L60

Datafusion already upgrades to arrow 51. arrow 51 also contains some useful features we might use later.

[waynexia]

Can we wait for arrow 51 release to include an update of tonic 0.11 which includes an update of rustls 0.22? I think it won't be long.

I'm Okay with this update PR. I can do another update later when it's released. This patch has contained lots of change

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 78.01684% with 235 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 84.82%. Comparing base (2ede968) to head (03533ca).
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[killme2008]

We can't merge this PR until we fix all these failed tests.

[MichaelScofield]

close because of #3661