bloom filter part IV: adjust writer properties, bloom filter properties, and incorporate into column encoder

[jimexist]

Which issue does this PR close?

• part IV of Support bloom filter reading and writing for parquet #3023
• closes audit and create a document for bloom filter configurations #3138
• previous change: parquet bloom filter part III: add sbbf writer, remove bloom default feature, add reader properties #3119
• next change: add integration tests

Rationale for this change

mostly documented in #3138

What changes are included in this PR?

1. update number of properties
2. push down hashing to encoder level
3. add more docs

Are there any user-facing changes?

[tustvold]

This looks good to me, I may do a second pass prior to the release tomorrow, but this looks good to me. Thank you for all your work on this 👍

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 8ba7842 and contender = 5640a5b. 5640a5b is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
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Buildkite builds:
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java

[alamb]

Thank you for all your work on this feature @jimexist -- it is really cool to see