[Python] test_flight.test_generic_options is consistently failing on AMD64 MacOS Python 3

[lidavidm]

Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

Observed over several PRs/main

=================================== FAILURES ===================================
_____________________________ test_generic_options _____________________________

    @pytest.mark.requires_testing_data
    def test_generic_options():
        """Test setting generic client options."""
        certs = example_tls_certs()
    
        with ConstantFlightServer(tls_certificates=certs["certificates"]) as s:
            # Try setting a string argument that will make requests fail
            options = [("grpc.ssl_target_name_override", "fakehostname")]
            client = flight.connect(('localhost', s.port),
                                    tls_root_certs=certs["root_cert"],
                                    generic_options=options)
            with pytest.raises(flight.FlightUnavailableError):
                client.do_get(flight.Ticket(b'ints'))
            client.close()
            # Try setting an int argument that will make requests fail
            options = [("grpc.max_receive_message_length", 32)]
            client = flight.connect(('localhost', s.port),
                                    tls_root_certs=certs["root_cert"],
                                    generic_options=options)
            with pytest.raises(pa.ArrowInvalid):
>               client.do_get(flight.Ticket(b'ints'))

/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/3.11/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/tests/test_flight.py:2049: 
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pyarrow/_flight.pyx:1558: in pyarrow._flight.FlightClient.do_get
    ???
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>   ???
E   pyarrow._flight.FlightCancelledError: Flight cancelled call, with message: CANCELLED. gRPC client debug context: UNKNOWN:Error received from peer localhost:49538 {grpc_message:"CANCELLED", grpc_status:1, created_time:"2023-03-27T02:01:16.228276+00:00"}. Client context: IOError: Server never sent a data message. Detail: Internal

pyarrow/_flight.pyx:62: FlightCancelledError
----------------------------- Captured stderr call -----------------------------
E0327 02:01:16.198457000 123145459277824 ssl_transport_security.cc:1854] No match found for server name: fakehostname.
E0327 02:01:16.208685000 123145459277824 ssl_transport_security.cc:1854] No match found for server name: fakehostname.

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[lidavidm]

I'm unable to reproduce this on aarch64 macOS, though.

[wjones127]

@lidavidm I'll take a look on my Intel Mac

[lidavidm]

I put up a PR to just relax the condition already, anyways