ARROW-8226: [Go] Add 64-bit offset Binary Builder and String Builder

[zeroshade]

Initial support for Large Binary and Large String. The change is large enough as is so pushing the support through to the IPC module and others will be reserved for a subsequent change to this, same for updating the Parquet modules to support Large Binary and Large String.

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8226

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[zeroshade]

Since this is blocking more work on my end to push the Large types through I'll give this another day and then merge it tomorrow if no one has any objections.

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 7fe71f5 and contender = a4d4bd0. a4d4bd0 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Failed ⬇️1.79% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished ⬇️0.1% ⬆️0.0%] test-mac-arm
[Failed ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.18% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Failed] a4d4bd05 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] a4d4bd05 test-mac-arm
[Failed] a4d4bd05 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] a4d4bd05 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Failed] 7fe71f5c ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] 7fe71f5c test-mac-arm
[Finished] 7fe71f5c ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 7fe71f5c ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java