Fix rdma remove consumer error

[chenBright]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number:

1. Fix rdma complie error #2707 导致RdmaEndpoint回收资源的时候无法从移除对应的fd，导致后续相同值的fd无法再加入到epoll中。
2. 修复EndPointTest.interrupt一些问题：超时时间太小导致失败、信号处理函数中打日志会申请内存导致core。

Problem Summary:

What is changed and the side effects?

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• Performance effects(性能影响):

• Breaking backward compatibility(向后兼容性):

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