[KYUUBI #3065] Support to retry the killApplicationByTag for JpsApplicationOperation

### _Why are the changes needed?_

If using jps application manager, for spark job, it might generate two processes.

And the first one is only for spark submit args parser and is transient, so if we try to kill the app by tag, it might say `No such process` and the spark main process is still running.
So, for JpsApplicationOperation, we need to retry the kill app operation to prevent flaky test.

### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

- [x] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request

Closes #3065 from turboFei/jps_appmgr.

Closes #3065

3d7503d [Fei Wang] thanks
7b25965 [Fei Wang] if else
9133e80 [Fei Wang] Retry the kill for one time

Authored-by: Fei Wang <fwang12@ebay.com>
Signed-off-by: Fei Wang <fwang12@ebay.com>

Author: turboFei

kyuubi-server/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/engine/JpsApplicationOperation.scala

@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@ class JpsApplicationOperation extends ApplicationOperation {
     }
   }
 
-  override def killApplicationByTag(tag: String): KillResponse = {
+  private def killJpsApplicationByTag(tag: String, retryable: Boolean): KillResponse = {
     val commandOption = getEngine(tag)
     if (commandOption.nonEmpty) {
       val idAndCmd = commandOption.get
@@ -68,13 +68,22 @@ class JpsApplicationOperation extends ApplicationOperation {
         (true, s"Succeeded to terminate: $idAndCmd")
       } catch {
         case e: Exception =>
-          (false, s"Failed to terminate: $idAndCmd, due to ${e.getMessage}")
+          // the application might generate multiple processes, ensure that it is killed eventually.
+          if (retryable && getEngine(tag).nonEmpty) {
+            killJpsApplicationByTag(tag, false)
+          } else {
+            (false, s"Failed to terminate: $idAndCmd, due to ${e.getMessage}")
+          }
       }
     } else {
       (false, NOT_FOUND)
     }
   }
 
+  override def killApplicationByTag(tag: String): KillResponse = {
+    killJpsApplicationByTag(tag, true)
+  }
+
   override def getApplicationInfoByTag(tag: String): Map[String, String] = {
     val commandOption = getEngine(tag)
     if (commandOption.nonEmpty) {