[KYUUBI #3287] Exclude reload4j from hadoop-minikdc

### _Why are the changes needed?_

HADOOP-18088 replaces log4j 1.x with reload4j, we should exclude it becuase we are using log4j2, otherwise slf4j complains

```
SLF4J: Class path contains multiple SLF4J bindings.
SLF4J: Found binding in [jar:file:/Users/chengpan/.m2/repository/org/apache/logging/log4j/log4j-slf4j-impl/2.18.0/log4j-slf4j-impl-2.18.0.jar!/org/slf4j/impl/StaticLoggerBinder.class]
SLF4J: Found binding in [jar:file:/Users/chengpan/.m2/repository/org/slf4j/slf4j-reload4j/1.7.36/slf4j-reload4j-1.7.36.jar!/org/slf4j/impl/StaticLoggerBinder.class]
SLF4J: See http://www.slf4j.org/codes.html#multiple_bindings for an explanation.
SLF4J: Actual binding is of type [org.apache.logging.slf4j.Log4jLoggerFactory]
```

### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

- [x] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request

Closes #3287 from pan3793/reload4j.

Closes #3287

60930d7 [Cheng Pan] Exclude reload4j from hadoop-minikdc

Authored-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>
(cherry picked from commit 4ee8171)
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>

Author: pan3793

pom.xml

@@ -1085,7 +1085,7 @@
                 <exclusions>
                     <exclusion>
                         <groupId>org.slf4j</groupId>
-                        <artifactId>slf4j-log4j12</artifactId>
+                        <artifactId>*</artifactId>
                     </exclusion>
                     <exclusion>
                         <groupId>junit</groupId>