[KYUUBI #2837] [BUILD] Support publish to private repo

### _Why are the changes needed?_

Usage:
```
build/mvn clean deploy -DskipTests -Pflink-provided,spark-provided,hive-provided,spark-3.3 \
    -DdistMgmtReleaseId=xxx \
    -DdistMgmtReleaseName=xxx \
    -DdistMgmtReleaseUrl=xxx
```

### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request

Closes #2837 from pan3793/deploy.

Closes #2837

48d923e [Cheng Pan] 1
81fc8d3 [Cheng Pan] [BUILD] Support publish to private repo

Authored-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>

Author: pan3793

pom.xml

@@ -211,6 +211,13 @@
 
         <!-- Package to use when relocating shaded classes. -->
         <kyuubi.shade.packageName>org.apache.kyuubi.shade</kyuubi.shade.packageName>
+
+        <distMgmtReleaseId>apache.releases.https</distMgmtReleaseId>
+        <distMgmtReleaseName>Apache Release Distribution Repository</distMgmtReleaseName>
+        <distMgmtReleaseUrl>https://repository.apache.org/service/local/staging/deploy/maven2</distMgmtReleaseUrl>
+        <distMgmtSnapshotsId>apache.snapshots.https</distMgmtSnapshotsId>
+        <distMgmtSnapshotsName>Apache Development Snapshot Repository</distMgmtSnapshotsName>
+        <distMgmtSnapshotsUrl>https://repository.apache.org/content/repositories/snapshots</distMgmtSnapshotsUrl>
     </properties>
 
     <repositories>
@@ -264,6 +271,19 @@
         </pluginRepository>
     </pluginRepositories>
 
+    <distributionManagement>
+        <repository>
+            <id>${distMgmtReleaseId}</id>
+            <name>${distMgmtReleaseName}</name>
+            <url>${distMgmtReleaseUrl}</url>
+        </repository>
+        <snapshotRepository>
+            <id>${distMgmtSnapshotsId}</id>
+            <name>${distMgmtSnapshotsName}</name>
+            <url>${distMgmtSnapshotsUrl}</url>
+        </snapshotRepository>
+    </distributionManagement>
+
     <dependencyManagement>
         <dependencies>
             <dependency>