Introduce JDBC parameters to control connection timeout

[pan3793]

Why are the changes needed?

There are two concepts connect timeout and so timeout in the socket, currently, the Kyuubi Hive JDBC driver uses DriverManager#loginTimeout as both of them, it does not make sense, and will cause unexpected "read timeout" exceptions if DriverManager#loginTimeout was set a small value, e.g. Spring Boot set it to 30s in default.

This PR proposes to introduce two dedicated JDBC parameters to control them.

See also apache/hive#3379

How was this patch tested?

• Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

• Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

• Run test locally before make a pull request

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[pan3793]

Thanks, merging to master