release-23.1.0: sql: job SessionData OptimizerFKCascadesLimit not defaulting to optDrivenFKCascadesClusterLimit

[blathers-crl]

Backport 1/1 commits from #101267 on behalf of @ecwall.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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Fixes #101265

SessionData available to in the job context has a 0-value OptimizerFKCascadesLimit.

This causes DELETE queries run by the job with an inbound on-delete-cascade FK to fail with an error cascades limit (0) reached.

This change fixes this by populating OptimizerFKCascadesLimit in sql.NewFakeSessionData.

Release note: None

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Release justification:

[blathers-crl]

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[rafiss]

this is a duplicate of #101343