feat: add configurable iavl cache size (backport #10561)

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   baseapp/options.go
	modified:   server/config/config.go
	modified:   server/config/toml.go
	modified:   server/mock/store.go
	modified:   store/iavl/store.go
	modified:   store/iavl/store_test.go
	modified:   store/rootmulti/proof_test.go
	modified:   store/types/iterator_test.go
	modified:   store/types/store.go

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	both modified:   CHANGELOG.md
	both modified:   store/rootmulti/store.go

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[amaury1093]

Let's merge #10696 first, so that there's no need to fix changelog conflicts 3 times.

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