fix(widget-relation): don't invoke onChange if component is not mounted

[erezrokah]

Summary

Fixes #5093
Probably fixes #4891 too

This should fix a race condition in the relation widget, where slower to load entries override faster to load ones when switching between entries.

Test plan

Existing tests

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