Enrich ConnectionPoolListener interface to listen more connection events #10541

Job	Run time
lint	10m 50s
site	8m 14s
choose-self-hosted	1s
flaky-tests	13m 11s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-21-snapshot-blockhound	34m 19s
build-macos-12-jdk-21	1h 7m 25s
build-windows-latest-jdk-21	37m 1s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-8	19m 55s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-11	22m 31s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-17-leak	25m 6s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-17-min-java-11	24m 11s
build-self-hosted-unsafe-jdk-17-min-java-17-coverage	33m 26s
	4h 56m 10s

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