test(instrumentation-restify): add ESM test for restify

[JamieDanielson]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• updates coordinate first pass at ESM support for all instrumentations #1942

Short description of the changes

• add use-restify.mjs fixture for testing ESM usage of restify instrumentation
• add ESM test for restify instrumentation

Also added use-restify.cjs for now to show that instrumentation looks to currently work for CJS but not ESM.

# works, shows span in output
➜  fixtures git:(jamie.restify-esm-test) ✗ node use-restify.cjs
# doesnt work
➜  fixtures git:(jamie.restify-esm-test) ✗ node --experimental-loader=@opentelemetry/instrumentation/hook.mjs use-restify.mjs

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 89.21%. Comparing base (dfb2dff) to head (bdb89be).
Report is 75 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #2149      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   90.97%   89.21%   -1.77%     
==========================================
  Files         146      105      -41     
  Lines        7492     5590    -1902     
  Branches     1502     1111     -391     
==========================================
- Hits         6816     4987    -1829     
+ Misses        676      603      -73     

see 58 files with indirect coverage changes

[JamieDanielson]

will revisit later