fix rabbitmq version detection using a package-agnostic version

[theredcat]

What does this PR do?

Fix rabbitmq version detection using a package-agnostic version. The package is not used anymore, so even if rabbitMQ wasn't installed with a package, the version can be determined. This is also useful on system where the package name isn't rabbitmq-server

I had to modify the >3.5.7 check-password code since it was raising an error when the password has to be changed where the old code return a bool

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

Fixes #34481
Fixes #35003
Fixes #33588

Previous Behavior

Use package version with hardcoded package name rabbitmq-server

New Behavior

Parse rabbitmqctl status stdout to determine the version

Tests written?

No

[cachedout]

Excellent. Many thanks, @theredcat