Allow surrogates in parameters

[chapmanjacobd]

closes #507

https://dwheeler.com/essays/fixing-unix-linux-filenames.html

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Base: 96.25% // Head: 96.09% // Decreases project coverage by -0.15% ⚠️

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Patch coverage: 63.63% of modified lines in pull request are covered.

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sqlite_utils/db.py	96.79% <63.63%> (-0.30%)	⬇️

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[chapmanjacobd]

Maybe this is actually a problem in the python sqlite bindings. Given SQLITE's stance on this they should probably use encode('utf-8', 'surrogatepass'). As far as I understand the error here won't actually be resolved by this PR as-is. We would need to modify the data with surrogateescape... :/ or modify the sqlite3 module to use surrogatepass