Run lifecycle hooks in topological sort order via CLI flag

[noahnu]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

If package A depends on package B, there should be a guarantee that package B is built before package A's prepack is run.

Describe the solution you'd like

A new CLI flag to enable topological sort.

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

Both lerna and yarn workspaces supports topological sort. Yarn has 2 options for this sort, one based on dependencies, and one based on dependencies+devDependencies. We can also support both.