MDEV-23633 MY_RELAX_CPU performs unnecessary compare-and-swap on ARM

This follows up MDEV-14374, which was filed against MariaDB Server 10.3.
Back then, on a 48-core Qualcomm Centriq 2400, the performance of
delay loops for spinloops was tested both with and without the dummy
compare-and-swap operation, and it was decided to keep the dummy
operation.

On target architectures where nothing special is available (other than
x86 (IA-32, AMD64) or POWER), we perform a dummy compare-and-swap operation.
This is contrary to the idea of the x86 PAUSE instruction and the
__ppc_get_timebase(), which aim to keep the memory bus idle for a while,
to allow other cores to better execute code while a spinloop is waiting
for something to be changed.

On MariaDB Server 10.4 and another implementation of the ARMv8 ISA,
omitting the dummy compare-and-swap improved performance by up to 12%.
So, let us avoid the dummy compare-and-swap on ARM.

For now, we are retaining the dummy compare-and-swap on other ISAs
(such as SPARC, MIPS, S390x, RISC-V) because we do not have any
performance data for them.

include/my_cpu.h

@@ -53,6 +53,7 @@
 #ifdef _WIN32
 #elif defined HAVE_PAUSE_INSTRUCTION
 #elif defined(_ARCH_PWR8)
+#elif defined __GNUC__ && (defined __arm__ || defined __aarch64__)
 #else
 # include "my_atomic.h"
 #endif
@@ -80,6 +81,9 @@ static inline void MY_RELAX_CPU(void)
 #endif
 #elif defined(_ARCH_PWR8)
   __ppc_get_timebase();
+#elif defined __GNUC__ && (defined __arm__ || defined __aarch64__)
+  /* Mainly, prevent the compiler from optimizing away delay loops */
+  __asm__ __volatile__ ("":::"memory")
 #else
   int32 var, oldval = 0;
   my_atomic_cas32_strong_explicit(&var, &oldval, 1, MY_MEMORY_ORDER_RELAXED,