PYTHON-4636 Fix windows send/recv perf

pymongo/network_layer.py

@@ -179,33 +179,48 @@ def _is_ready(fut: Future) -> None:
 else:
     # The default Windows asyncio event loop does not support loop.add_reader/add_writer:
     # https://docs.python.org/3/library/asyncio-platforms.html#asyncio-platform-support
+    # Note: In PYTHON-4493 we plan to replace this code with asyncio streams.
     async def _async_sendall_ssl(
         sock: Union[socket.socket, _sslConn], buf: bytes, dummy: AbstractEventLoop
     ) -> None:
         view = memoryview(buf)
         total_length = len(buf)
         total_sent = 0
+        # Backoff starts at 1ms, doubles on timeout up to 512ms, and halves on success
+        # down to 1ms.
+        backoff = 0.001
         while total_sent < total_length:
             try:
                 sent = sock.send(view[total_sent:])
             except BLOCKING_IO_ERRORS:
-                await asyncio.sleep(0.5)
+                await asyncio.sleep(backoff)
                 sent = 0
+            if sent > 0:
+                backoff = max(backoff / 2, 0.001)
+            else:
+                backoff = min(backoff * 2, 0.512)
             total_sent += sent
 
     async def _async_receive_ssl(
         conn: _sslConn, length: int, dummy: AbstractEventLoop
     ) -> memoryview:
         mv = memoryview(bytearray(length))
         total_read = 0
+        # Backoff starts at 1ms, doubles on timeout up to 512ms, and halves on success
+        # down to 1ms.
+        backoff = 0.001
         while total_read < length:
             try:
                 read = conn.recv_into(mv[total_read:])
                 if read == 0:
                     raise OSError("connection closed")
             except BLOCKING_IO_ERRORS:
-                await asyncio.sleep(0.5)
+                await asyncio.sleep(backoff)
                 read = 0
+            if read > 0:
+                backoff = max(backoff / 2, 0.001)
+            else:
+                backoff = min(backoff * 2, 0.512)
             total_read += read
         return mv